Amongst the midst of turmoil and strife and growing up in the life of a child is the mind of insecurity and overconfidence. These two opposites may very well differ and segregate from time to time and child to child. But the obsession and compulsion for a child to grow up with a positive mental outlook on life drives him or her to an ego or egocentric personality disorder. This desire to succeed and be the best is a self defeating and destructive force which conditions the child and their mind to function in a egotistical and overwhelming fashion that would see them concentrating on evil desires instead of the direction of their own best interests. This blind spot or so called illusion of foresight turns their thinking capacity to be a tractor to their own self.

The very nature and purpose of doing well is to live to enjoy the fruits of your labour and this can be disharmonising when abuse or overachievement is attained and fulfilled which then in turn teaches the child to be self dependent while he is still very much supported by his or her parents. This perversion degree of falsehood which conjures up thoughts that detract from need and create a want to desires. This ability to contain once feelings or emotions is a more adult and mature characteristic but the highly advanced or far ahead of themself high achiever is more than likely to develop a personality that Is egotistical and thrives on his or her ego to fulfil the desire to be successful and a high achiever.

This self motivation in the first place is a nearly always accepted as common but in the development stages a child needs to learn slowly and retain and remember the necessary facts of life so that when an adult has useful information to use and does not squander or waste the intellect.